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In astrology, the Lilith archetype represents primal instincts, the shadow self, and aspects of femininity often suppressed or misunderstood in society. There are several Lilith points used in astrological interpretation, each offering unique insights into our subconscious desires, fears, and rebellions. In this post, we'll delve into the significance of each Lilith point - Black Moon Lilith, True Lilith, Dark Moon Lilith, and Asteroid Lilith - and provide tips on how to understand and learn from them in your own natal chart.

Nowadays, there are several aspects in astrology that are named after Lilith. All these aspects have been named after her because they represent different parts of our shadows, repressed emotions or thoughts, or things that may have been instilled in us to suppress due to societal norms. For now we will be diving deeper into 4 of these aspects that can help you better understand your subconscious and possibly help you tap into a power that can help you through life.

Finding Your Lilith Placements in Your Chart

If you are not sure where each of these placements are you can easily look them up on Astro.com.

1. This page will ask if you want to continue as a guest or registered user. You can select guest user if you’d prefer not to create a user profile.

2. Fill out the birth data entry page. If your birth time is unknown, you must select “Unknown” instead of the preselected group of question marks.  Although it helps to know roughly the time you were born in order to get best results.

3. On the next screen, under the section chart drawing style select “Astrodienst w. asteroids”

4. At the bottom of this page select “Additional Objects” and find Lilith (mean) in the dropdown menu. In the Manual Entry box, type in “1181” for the Asteroid Lilith, “H58” for Dark Moon Lilith, and “H13” to calculate True Black Moon Lilith’s position. Make sure to separate these with commas.

5. Continue to the next page. Your natal chart will then be displayed. You will notice that, at the bottom of the chart, there is a key. The key will contain three “Liliths” and “Waldemath.” The very top Lilith that is represented with her crescent moon and cross glyph represents the “mean” Black Moon Lilith sign. The “Lilith (O)” for Oscillating Lilith, also known as “true” Lilith. Your “1181 Lilith” is representative of Asteroid Lilith and shows on the chart as “Lilit.” “Waldemath” represents your Dark Moon Lilith and has been abbreviated as “Walde” on the chart.

For a better understanding of the basics of your natal chart; including your planet and house placements be sure to check out the beginners guide.

Black Moon Lilith (Mean Lilith)

Black Moon Lilith is calculated by averaging the positions of the Moon and the Earth's apogee, representing the focal point of the Moon's elliptical orbit around the Earth. In astrology, Black Moon Lilith is associated with primal instincts, taboo subjects, repressed desires, and the darker aspects of the subconscious mind. It signifies areas of life where one may experience power struggles, confront societal norms, or confront suppressed emotions. To learn from Black Moon Lilith in your natal chart, explore the house placement and aspects it makes with other planets. Pay attention to themes of empowerment, embracing authenticity, and confronting your shadow self.

True Lilith (Oscillating Lilith)

True Lilith is calculated based on the Moon's actual position in its orbit around the Earth, considering gravitational forces from other celestial bodies. It fluctuates more significantly over time compared to Black Moon Lilith. True Lilith shares similar themes as Black Moon Lilith, including the exploration of the shadow self, primal instincts, and sexuality. To understand True Lilith in your chart, observe its house placement and aspects, and reflect on areas of your life where you feel a strong urge for autonomy, authenticity, and liberation from societal constraints.

Dark Moon Lilith (Waldemath Lilith)

Dark Moon Lilith is a theoretical point derived from the Moon's orbit, taking into account its elliptical path and inclination relative to the Earth's equator. It represents themes of feminine power, rebellion against societal norms, and the exploration of the shadow self. While less commonly used in mainstream astrology, Dark Moon Lilith offers insights into areas of life where one seeks autonomy and authenticity. To learn from Dark Moon Lilith in your chart, explore its placement and aspects, and embrace the call for self-discovery, empowerment, and liberation.

Asteroid Lilith

Asteroid Lilith represents a hypothetical asteroid named after the mythical figure Lilith. Its position in the natal chart signifies themes related to independence, rebellion, sensuality, and the shadow self. While not as widely utilized as the Lilith points mentioned earlier, Asteroid Lilith offers additional layers of interpretation. To understand Asteroid Lilith in your chart, explore its house placement and aspects, and reflect on areas where you feel a strong urge for self-expression, freedom, and embracing your true nature.

Tips for Learning from Lilith in Your Natal Chart

Study Your Lilith Placement

Identify the house placement and aspects of each Lilith point in your natal chart to gain insights into specific areas of your life influenced by Lilith's energy.

Check out my post on understanding your natal chart, where I summarize what areas of life pertain to each house in your chart.

Reflect on Themes

Reflect on recurring themes associated with Lilith, such as primal instincts, rebellion, sexuality, and the shadow self, to understand how they manifest in your life. When you notice these themes come up, in whatever way they do show up for you, simply make a note of it and then go back to it when you have time to do shadow work. This will help you find a way to empower yourself. For example, if you tend to be the black sheep in the family when it comes to religion, but you can never quite convey your views eloquently or find yourself in toxic arguments with people because of it, then it may have to do with not tapping into your Lilith placements. Understanding where Lilith is for you may help you understand why this is a struggle for you. Reflecting on this can help you overpower the struggle you may face.

Embrace Authenticity

Embrace the call for authenticity and liberation represented by Lilith in your chart. Explore areas where you may need to confront societal norms and embrace your true nature. In all of Lilith’s mythology, she was never one to shy away from embracing all aspects of herself and that’s what made her so powerful. She was feared because she could not be controlled or tamed by societal norms.

If you are interested in learning more about Lilith’s mythology and possibly considering working with her, check out my post on Who is Lilith?

Seek Integration

Integrate the lessons and insights gained from exploring Lilith in your chart into your journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and personal growth. Embracing your inner Lilith helps you understand that your shadows are not negative but rather a hidden power.

Black Moon Lilith in Each of The Houses

The most popular of each of the Lilith placements is Black Moon Lilith which is why I find it important to explore what that might mean to you.

These examples illustrate how Black Moon Lilith can manifest in different areas of life, highlighting themes of rebellion, empowerment, and authenticity within the context of the natal chart. It's essential to consider the house placement along with other factors, such as aspects and planetary placements, to gain a comprehensive understanding of how Black Moon Lilith influences an individual's life path and experiences. This meant to be a general guide that may help you on your journey; take what resonates and reflect on how you can turn possible challenges in your life into your gifts.

Here are some examples of what Black Moon Lilith could signify in each of the houses of the natal chart:

1st House - House of Self

With Black Moon Lilith in the 1st House, there may be a strong emphasis on individuality, self-expression, and authenticity. Individuals with this placement may feel a deep urge to assert their independence and break free from societal norms. They may also have a magnetic presence but can struggle with issues related to self-image and identity. To overcome these struggles try having daily affirmations, and diving deeper into your hobbies and passions. Don’t be afraid to be yourself, authenticity is your power.

2nd House - House of Possessions and Stability

Black Moon Lilith in the 2nd House can indicate themes related to self-worth, material possessions, and values. Individuals with this placement may have an intense desire for financial independence and may rebel against traditional career paths or societal expectations related to money and possessions. They may also confront issues related to self-value and empowerment in their pursuit of material security. Overindulgence tends to be a struggle for those who don’t pay attention to their Lilith in this house. Make sure you have a plan. Wether you are trying to own a cute little cottage in the middle of nowhere or want to have a luxurious mansion by the beach, have a vision board of some sort that will help reel you back in when you are about to make impulsive decisions that may not benefit you in the long run.

3rd House - House of Communication, Information Exchange and Intellect

In the 3rd House, Black Moon Lilith can manifest as a desire for intellectual freedom, communication, and learning. Individuals with this placement may rebel against conventional thinking or may have a strong urge to express themselves through writing, speaking, or teaching. They may also confront issues related to communication, siblings, or early education that challenge societal norms. Journaling, reading and researching are your best friends here. These habits will help you convey your expressive self more eloquently.

4th House - House of Home and Family

With Black Moon Lilith in the 4th House, there may be intense emotions and family dynamics at play. Individuals with this placement may have experienced disruptions or conflicts within the family environment that have shaped their sense of security and belonging. They may also confront issues related to home, roots, and ancestral patterns, challenging societal expectations of family roles and traditions. The best way to navigate struggles in this house is to embrace the saying, “your family is who you choose to be closest to.” Families come in all shapes and sizes and the sooner we learn to embrace the true meaning of what family is and what home is to us, that is when we will be the happiest with this aspect of our life.

5th House - House of Pleasure, Creativity, Children or Inner Child and Romance

Black Moon Lilith in the 5th House can indicate themes related to creativity, self-expression, and romance. Individuals with this placement may rebel against societal norms or traditional expectations in their pursuit of creative freedom and personal fulfillment. They may also confront issues related to love, pleasure, and self-acceptance that challenge societal standards of beauty and expression. Prioritizing self-care, self-love and joy in your life are what’s going to help you overcome struggles in this house.

6th House - House of Health, Habits and Routine

In the 6th House, Black Moon Lilith may manifest as a desire for autonomy, service, and health. Individuals with this placement may rebel against routine or traditional work environments, seeking independence and self-expression in their daily tasks. They may also confront issues related to health, wellness, and self-care that challenge societal norms of productivity and perfectionism. There are many views on what is and isn’t healthy nowadays, so my biggest tip for navigating health issues is to do your research and listen to what actually makes sense to you. Avoid addictive substances and limit your processed food intake if you struggle with physical health. Your body is your sacred vessel and when you treat it as such you will empower yourself in more ways than one.

7th House - House of Committed Relationships; Romantic and Platonic

With Black Moon Lilith in the 7th House, there may be intense dynamics in relationships and partnerships. Individuals with this placement may confront issues related to power dynamics, intimacy, and equality in their one-on-one connections. They may rebel against societal expectations of marriage or may struggle with asserting their own needs and desires within relationships.

8th House - House of Sex, Occult, Investments, Shared Finances and Death

Black Moon Lilith in the 8th House can indicate themes related to transformation, intimacy, and shared resources. Individuals with this placement may confront issues related to power dynamics, sexuality, and the shadow self in their personal and financial interactions. They may rebel against societal taboos or expectations related to death, sex, and the occult.

9th House - House of Travel, Expansion of Consciousness, Awareness and Knowledge

In the 9th House, Black Moon Lilith may manifest as a desire for philosophical exploration, adventure, and freedom. Individuals with this placement may rebel against cultural or religious norms, seeking independence and expansion through travel, higher education, or spiritual pursuits. They may also confront issues related to belief systems and ideology that challenge societal expectations of morality and truth.

10th House - House of Career and Social Standing

With Black Moon Lilith in the 10th House, there may be intense ambitions and challenges related to career and public image. Individuals with this placement may rebel against traditional authority or societal expectations of success, seeking autonomy and recognition in their professional pursuits. They may confront issues related to power and control in the public sphere, challenging societal norms of status and achievement.

11th House House of Community, Network and Friends

Black Moon Lilith in the 11th House can indicate themes related to social change, community, and individuality. Individuals with this placement may rebel against conformity or societal expectations of group identity, seeking freedom and authenticity in their social circles. They may confront issues related to friendship, activism, or humanitarian causes that challenge societal norms of belonging and acceptance.

12th House - House of Mental Health/Psyche, Imagination and Dreams

In the 12th House, Black Moon Lilith may manifest as a desire for spiritual transcendence, solitude, and healing. Individuals with this placement may rebel against societal constraints or collective illusions, seeking liberation and self-awareness through introspection and self-discovery. They may confront issues related to subconscious patterns, karma, and the collective unconscious that challenge societal norms of reality and perception.

Conclusion

Exploring the Lilith astrological points - Black Moon Lilith, True Lilith, Dark Moon Lilith, and Asteroid Lilith - offers valuable insights into our subconscious desires, fears, and rebellions. By studying these points in your natal chart and reflecting on their themes, you can deepen your understanding of yourself and embrace the call for authenticity, empowerment, and liberation.

What are your Lilith placements, and how do you understand it to empower you?